OK, I must admit - if only to myself- that I am learning some new things about me.
When we try to put ourselves in molds that seem acceptable to others, we tend to forget that we aren't all made from the same mold.
What works for one may not necessarily work for others. It doesn't make one good versus bad.... it just is.
I am my own light and what I need to succeed is what I need. Not what someone else thinks I should need.
We are all different and that is good.